Social Media & Internet Safety
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95% of teens in the U.S. are online, and a vast majority access the internet on their mobile device, making it the most common medium for cyberbullying.
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About 37% of young people between the ages of 12 and 17 have been bullied online. 30% have had it happen more than once.
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About half of LGBTQ+ students experience online harassment--a higher rate than the average.
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1 in 3 teens say they have been text messaged 10-30 times an hour by a dating partner to find out where they were or who they were with at the time.
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17% of teens say their partner has made them afraid not to respond to a text/snap because of what they might do.
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29% of teens believe exchanging sexually suggestive content is expected to date or hook up.
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29% of internet sex crimes relationships were initiated online, and advocates report a growing trend of human traffickers using online social media platforms to recruit and advertise targets of human trafficking.
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https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/what-is-it
https://www.guardchild.com/social-media-statistics-2/
https://www.dosomething.org/us/facts/11-facts-about-cyber-bullying
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Monitor:
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Find ways to start the conversation: https://www.commonsensemedia.org/blog/how-to-talk-to-kids-about-difficult-subjects
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Be on social media! This is one of the most important things you can do.
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Have the passwords to your child’s phone, computer and all social media sites
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View the history on your child’s computers
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Do random phone checks. Remember, that is your phone and your child is NOT guaranteed privacy in your home. You have a right and responsibility to check that they are making good choices online.
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Consider purchasing a Parental Control App
https://www.consumersadvocate.org/parental-control-apps
https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/digital-awareness-for-parentsgov/bullying/lgbtq
Recognize & Intervene
Recognize:
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Noticeable increases or decreases in device use
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Seem distant, upset or angry after using social media, texting or the internet
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Become increasingly secretive around their use of technology
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Shut their door and hiding what they have on their screen
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Become more possessive of their cell phone and being concerned if someone else picks it up or wants to look at it
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Dating partner: forces them to share passwords, controls who they follow, shares insulting posts of them, and/or track your activities and location
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Are pressured to send explicit messages or pictures
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Full list of warning signs https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/prevention
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Types of Abuse
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Cyber: https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/what-is-it
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Relationship: https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/types-of-abuse/
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Sex Trafficking: https://phys.org/news/2018-10-link-social-media-sex-trafficking.html
Intervene:
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Ask questions to learn what is happening, how it started and who is involved
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Document what is happening and where. Take screenshots of the posts if possible
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Report using the social media platform tools if it’s a stranger. If it’s a classmate, report it to the school. If the child has received a physical threat, or if a potential crime has occured, call the police. https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/how-to-report
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For more information:
https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/prevention
https://youth.gov/youth-topics/how-do-i-report-suspected-incidence-human-trafficking
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Support:
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Listen and give support
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Let them know they’ve done the right thing by telling you
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Tell them it’s not their fault
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Do not threaten to take away their phones or shut down their social media accounts
Reach Out:
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Ohio Human Trafficking https://humantrafficking.ohio.gov/
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Online Child Safety https://www.missingkids.org/netsmartz/home
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Love is Respect, National Teen Dating Violence Resource https://www.loveisrespect.org/
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Stop Bullying https://www.stopbullying.gov/
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LGBTQI Issues https://www.stopbullying.