Safe Relationships
Learn:
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One in 10 teen girls and one in 11 teen boys admit to having experienced physical violence in a dating relationship in the past year.
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One in three teens says they know someone who has been physically assaulted or hurt by a dating partner.
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One in five teens admits to being emotionally abused in the past year.
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Among 11- to 14-year-olds who have been in relationships, 62% of them know friends who have been verbally abused by a boyfriend or girlfriend.
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Approximately one in five teen girls have been physically or sexually abused by their partners.
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Dating Abuse Statistics
Facts about Teen Dating Violence
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Monitor:
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Find ways to start the conversation: How to talk to kids about Difficult Subjects
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Be where they are online (yes, even TikTok): TikTok
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Follow prevention agencies on social media for information
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Take time to get to know their dating partners
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Don’t forget to talk about healthy relationship qualities as well: Futures Without Violence
Recognize & Intervene
Recognize:
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Extreme jealousy or possessiveness from your child’s partner
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Isolation from other friends and family
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Changes in appearance (clothes & makeup) and behavior (skipping school & attitude)
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Decreased interest in activities and other interests
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Full list of warning signs: What to Look For
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The spectrum of abuse: Healthy-relationships/relationship-Spectrum
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Types of Abuse: Types of Abuse
​ Intervene:​
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Talk to your child about their relationship Talking to your Teen
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Avoid ultimatums
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Create a Safety Plan if necessary Create a Safety Plan
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Support:
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Listen and give support
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Accept what your child is telling you and show concern
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Focus on behaviors, not the person involved
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Decide on the next steps together
Reach Out:
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Safe on Main Hotline #: 888-860-4084
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Safe on Main Social Media: Safe on Main Facebook Community
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Teen Alliance Council, High School Youth Leadership Team Teen Alliance Council - Instagram Community
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Love is Respect, National Teen Dating Violence Resource Love is Respect - Website
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RAINN, National Sexual Violence Resource Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network - Website